Actually I think there are 3 main choices here: country, city, and suburbs. Something like 85% of the population is suburban.
That´s us. We have a good little village for our suburb - there´s no more room for development; that has to go to suburbs south and west and north of us.
So it´s an older suburb, with one Woolies, a post office, a chemist, a gym, a computer shop and a vet (or two) and some takeaways (chinese, pizza, chicken but no fish ´n´ chips - they closed 4 years ago and now we have to go outside our village for that).
I have one friend in our village, but she´s a dog person. AND she joined Dogster instead of United Dogs. AND she was shocked to find that people "make buddies" with "dead dogs." Sigh.
Our little 1/3 acre is a funny diamond shape because it backs up to the railway line. It took me 3 years before I didn´t jump every time a train went by.
In the 25 years he´s lived here, Douglas has planted and planted. There are over 200 trees on this lot. Therefore, we have abundant wildlife for Piper to observe. Most of it - even the birds - are too dangerous for her to play with.
Last week she had a breakthrough with our giant dragon, The Gymp. He was sitting on the terrace wall, and Piper was climbed up the wall peeking her head at him, about a foot away. She realized that she was scared enough that she did not get any closer, and that was just his tail she was close to - not his head! So she´s understanding that dragon = interesting, but dragon = dangerous! When she was a kitten, she jumped on his back! Thank goodness for the lead, I was able to pull her right back before the dragon got alarmed.
It´s good not having Chookums here, as she was a hunter and a killer and I always was nervous she was going to eliminate an entire species (like the dragons, or the kangaroo mouse thingys) from our lot. She´d get the baby dragons, and it wasn´t until after she died that we had some middleys (adolescent, young-adult dragons) come up.
So we have the best of both worlds here. Total privacy (Doug likes to garden in the nude), but proximity so that we don´t have to drive forever to get anywhere. You would not know from looking at our garden photos - that we have neighbors on 3 sides, because of the trees & privacy fences.
I love Australia. I feel so much more free here than I did in the USA.