Treat, R.I.P.
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Owner darcyd
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Darcyd here

4 months ago
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I´m borrowing Treat´s diary to thank anyone I have missed thanking personally for all of the kind remarks, condolences, gifts to Treat and the other kitties, catmails, personal mails--the outpouring of affection and understanding of our grief and sadness at losing our ornery old cat pal.

You are all so kind and have made Treat´s passing easier for me because I have someone to talk to now who understands how it feels to lose a kitty. When I was a little girl and one of my cats died or was killed by a car, my dad, hating to see me grieving so hard said, "That´s it. No more cats." And of course I cried harder than ever and of course there was another cat.

We´ve sort of had an online memorial service for Treat, without the covered hot dishes. He would have been delighted at all of the attention and like Tom Sawyer, would enjoy attending his own funeral.

But everything comes to an end. Yesterday was a beautiful day, he was maybe a little too happy and a little too careless kicking up his thin-furred heels enjoying himself until the end. But I think, as Chief Dan George said in Little Big Man, for Treaters, "It was a good day to die."

My other boys are all adjusting and we´re spending a little more time together and I´m spending a little less online so I can reassure them that Treat was not just the FIRST cat to go and their turn is NEXT. It´s that thing in the cat mentality that makes them always think, experience to the contrary, that every time you put them in the carrier you are going to throw them in the river or something. We´ve been having lots of cuddles, purrs and kisses to counter this feline belief system and because it makes me feel better.

And you guys have too. So thanks. Virtual purrs from the boys and hugs from me,
darcyd aka Ann Scarborough
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Owner saucykats
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Beautifully written Ann. These first days are the toughest. For a week after I lost Precious I would take Angelica up to bed with me. Luckily my husband understood and so did Angelica. The saying "time heals" for me means that the pain has lessened. I think I will forever miss her just as you will miss Treat but that´s a good thing because both were loved so much and part of a family, not "just a cat" as some non-cat persons are fond of saying. Having said that, my heart goes out to you.
Pam
xo

Inappropriate 17.May 2008 10:48

Owner Tegan
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You are welcome Ann!

We cat people have to stick together, as they (Our cats) are our CHILDREN and not just cats. As the saying goes "There is no such thing as a simple cat"

I wish you and your family well, and hope Treat´s passing goes easier for you.

We are all there for you.

Love Ruth-Anne.

Inappropriate 17.May 2008 10:53

Owner furrypaws
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Most of us have been thru it at some stage. It does get easier, and the tears are replaced by smiles as something reminds you of your furry friend.
To quote my FAVORITE line from the movie "Phar Lap" (edited for the moment)
"He wasn´t just a cat,...... He was the best"
All our love and purrs
Daffodil xxoo

Inappropriate 17.May 2008 10:56

Owner teri13
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Ann, we loved Treat too. He will be in our hearts and we hope you all feel better as time goes by.

Teri, lou,mr, and boots

Inappropriate 17.May 2008 18:59

Owner chili
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dear Ann...Treat had lived to his fullest in a very warm, loving family and gave his loves in return.. i believe, when we lost our loved one the only thing that would make us smile is... to nurture, treasure and hold to the memory....
Treat is a loving, precious memory to all of us and his buddies

our hugs n kisses to you, Pancho, Cisco n Kittibits
Chili

Inappropriate 17.May 2008 19:14

Owner msamso
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you are totally welcome Ann

Like I told you before, we all spend so many time in this website that ,at least me, get really attached with people and their cats! I have great friends here and is always so nice to log in to escape from my daily problems, and play around with our cats and people like us in this website (while my husband rolls his eyes!)

Treat´s death not only touched me because is Desmond´s buddy and we loved to read his diary entries and messaging to each other. It makes me realize that I could lose Desmond any day, in just 15 minutes.... and that would change my life so much... he´s my only cat and my first cat too. We are so attached with each other, we spend day and night together!

So how can we not being touched about what you´re passing through? I´ve been thinking about that all these days!

a big hug for you... and you´re not alone! here people understand exactly what you feel, never forget that!!

Michelle

Inappropriate 17.May 2008 22:30

dear Ann,
I´m glad to hear that our messages helped you... Treat (Kittibits, Pancho, Cisco) are part of our family, I feel the same grief when I´ve read Treat´s diary as if he was my cat...

All love --Lecy

Inappropriate 20.May 2008 07:03

Treat our friend and buddy forever on our minds and in our hearts, miss you already!!!!!
Mom just told us, Treat, our buddy, we are sad, so is mom, Well Treat we have many friends there waiting for you to play. Your in our prayers and in our hearts forever. Bear and Family Hugs

Inappropriate 21.May 2008 04:46

Owner Muddy
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Don´t worry Darcyd, my Socks and all the other kitties over the rainbow bridge are taking really good care of Treat, and we´re all here for you if you need to talk or vent.

Inappropriate 21.May 2008 19:59

Owner MichyD
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Heartfelt greetings Ann. All cats go to heaven. Treat must have some wonderful company as he watches over his friends down here. Hugs from Michelle (and Sophie and all the gang)

Inappropriate 23.May 2008 06:52

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