Toby
Helping Tegan with the LOSCH rescue effort from on high!  

Owner Tegan
 2

Breed Mixed Breed
Nicknames
ColourSilver Tabby
Born 10.December 1985
Living in Australia, Over the Rainbow bridge
Lifestyle
Weight Medium (4-5kg)
Homepage en.unitedcats.com/cat/tobermory
I'm adopted

Last gifts to this cat

Flower
Kiss
Red rose
White Bunny
Kiss
Orange beachball
Welcome to Unitedcats.com
A pot of fresh green grass
Three red tulips
Stuffed mouse toy
Warm blue scarf
Stuffed mouse toy
Three red tulips
Kiss
Panda with a big red heart
Milk bowl
Blue comb
Card
Blossom
Red heart balloon

My diary

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About me

My good friend Ben´s Cat had kittens when I was around 7 years old, and I remember the first time I ever laid eyes on Toby. He was sitting in a flowerpot on the porch, for all the world like he owned the place! When we took him home I named him Tobermory after the wombles (Tomsk was named the same) but I only ever remember him being called Toby.

There was nothing really physically special about him, he was just a plain little silver tabby cat, with a cute face and an unusual tail. It was thin as a stick, and remained so throughout his life. When agitated, he would thrash it about like a whip, but I never remember him ever fluffing it out like a loo brush....there just wasn´t the fur on it!

Toby was very special in a spiritual way though, because he thought he was a dog. I was an only child up until 10 years old, and used to go on "adventures" about the farm at Legana, and then later in the bush out the back of our house at Claremont. Toby always insisted on following me on these razzles, and suprised many of my friends with his want to join in.

When we moved to Claremont, I was a little older, and used to jump the back gate and explore the bushland and paddocks that ran on for miles. Toby would trot along beside me and even "help" when I went to the creek to catch tadpoles. He would sit on the log accross the creek, let his thin tail drapse into the water and bat at the ripples with his paws. He had tremendous balance, and I never knew him to fall or slip, even when I climbed up VERY tall trees!

In the days before computers, the local kids would all get together and often go down to the creek, or else across the horse paddocks to the old quarry, the dams up on the hill, or way out to beyond the local school. Toby impressed many of my friends by sticking with us all the way, and they would comment "Look at him, he´s just like a dog!"

Often I would get off the bus from school and he would be at the driveway waiting for me. When I was lonely or sad, he was there and even when I was out about the garden or bouncing on the trampoline he would often sit and watch me.

He was a semi-feral cat in some regards, and his endless quest to roam free could land him in trouble. He would often disappear for days and then come home stuffed full of wild rabbit, and covered in fleas! One day he came home without one of his front fangs! Ever after that, his top lip would get caught up on the bottom fang and he would sneer at people. It did look funny!

As he aged, he became increasingly cantankerous and would often hiss at people when they went to let him out or pick him up. I never really had the problem with this...except on the few occasions he was REALLY grumpy!

By now I was in my late teens, and Toby was an old man. He would still follow me about at home and in the garden though, and I was the only one he would allow to fuss him. He still liked to go off on his own exploring, and it was not uncommon for him to be gone many days.

The death knell came when we had to move house again. This time it was to surburbia, and the wild rambling bushland and paddocks seemed like such a long way away. Toby was only with us at the new house for a week before he ran off.

From our porch you could see the rambling hills far away, and I truly believe that is where he went back to. I used to stand there on the porch in summer and remember all the fun we had running around outside and going on adventures, and I am so happy that I never had the chance to actually see him die, as I don´t know if I could have coped with that. I used to imagine Toby stalking his prey on the hills, and living out his twilight years wild, just as he loved to be.

Tegan is the love of my life now, and it is her who I am on United cats for, but Toby is a cat who deserves this tribute...and if his cantankerous soul comes in to United on occasion when there is a new rainbow kitty...well so be it...but this will be a rare occasion.

I truly believe that Toby has "passed over" but I will always hold a very special place for him in my heart.

Together we romped through the days of my childhood. I will never forget him.

Thanks my Toby xx

Favourite food

Rabbit

Favourite toy

Anything that was alive...mice, rats, rabbits etc

Likes

The great outdoors, being wild, following me on my adventures and with friends, stalking people through the kiwi-fruit bush.

Dislikes

Suburbia, being cooped up, the vet, too much fuss from other people.

What makes me special

He was the most special cat to me, who shared the best years of my childhood, and was the most loyal friend I knew.

My personality

Energy
100%
Intelligence
100%
Friendliness
60%
Playfulness
60%
Activeness
100%
Loyalty
100%
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Owner Tegan
 2

A pot of grass for my special man who loved the outdoors so much. I love you!

Inappropriate 1.April 2008 11:40

Owner Topher
 1

That was a really lovely story. xxx

Inappropriate 1.April 2008 15:01

Owner kiwi1
 7  1

its very sweet of u Tegan´s mommy... purrrsss

karkar & family

Inappropriate 1.April 2008 15:59

Owner daisymay
 1

Good to be Toby´s friend. The same thing happened when we moved house with my childhood cat Snuggles (aka Worm) He hated the town after the countryside, although he was also getting old. He just upped and went. Sad.
Never mind you have Tegan opps up now!
Love Chelsea and Daisymay

Inappropriate 2.April 2008 05:50

Owner wolfie
 1

Thanks for inviting me to be a friend of yours! I always believe that Rainbow Cats can watch over us from Heaven... which just might keep me out of trouble!

--Mugger

Inappropriate 2.April 2008 06:04

Owner maobrien
 2

Wow you were so special Toby. Now you a are very special Angel in Rainbow Heaven and having as much adventure we hope

Lillie & Cleo xx

Inappropriate 2.April 2008 06:50

Owner Kempton
 4

Toby was very special to me too Ruth. When you were at school, I remember lots of times when Toby would actually come in the house, especially in winter. He really felt the cold, if you remember, and would sit so very close to the wood heater, I used to fear he would burn his fur! On these freezing cold winter days, Toby would come inside more often and snuggle up to Tomsk on the couch for warmth.

Inappropriate 2.April 2008 08:36

Owner marcatmm
 2

Hi, Toby!! Thank you for asking us to be your buddies - God bless...
Sunny and Angie

Inappropriate 2.April 2008 09:02

Owner Spaceman
 3

Thx fer the invite

Inappropriate 2.April 2008 09:58

Thanks for the invite!!

Inappropriate 2.April 2008 23:04

He was a beautiful cat! I remember him well too! Good childhood memories

Inappropriate 3.April 2008 08:13

Also, with him running away, at least the last memory you have of him, is of him being alive! which i think is a much nicer memory and provides a lot more closure!

Inappropriate 3.April 2008 08:34

Owner pilar
 5

Hi toby! we are very happy to be your friends!

-Pocha, Dorotea, Joselo, Caride & Rita

Inappropriate 3.April 2008 09:30

Owner mypeanut
 1

Ruth, I swear on my life i had to hold back the tears.... I´m at work and that just so touched my heart.
awwww...
I hope him and sammy can be mates up there!
Special little ones that they were!
xoxoxx

Inappropriate 4.April 2008 07:25

Owner Kiyomi
 2

Hi Toby,
I want to play, chat and sleep together here in cats heaven. God bless you.
Chiiko in heaven

Inappropriate 4.April 2008 13:50

Owner brigitte
 1

Thank you so much for sharing the story of Toby with us. It is truly great reading about your memories and what a privileged childhood you had together with your companion. I too had a very special cat called Noels when I grew up. I am just so sorry that I have lost all the old photos (whilst moving the box full of photos just went missing) I also grew up on a farm and in those days (seems like a century ago) it was quite safe for us kids to roam miles away from home in fat I would be away from the house from dawn till dusk. And Noels was also always with me sharing all my adventures. He was always there to cheer me on or to dry away tears - he was always on my side when it seemed that the whole world was against me. I got him from a friend when he was only 3 weeks old and hid to hide him away from my dad as he would not allow cats into the house, and I managed to keep him hidden from him for about a year!! I was about 5 then and for 10 years we were inseparable. Then the farm was sold and we moved to another part of the country. On the day of the move Noels was away again on one of this trips (also used to be gone for days on end) and he got left behind. I missed him like crazy and cried myself to sleep for months. But in retrospect I realise that it was for the best. He would have hated to live anywhere else but on the farm and I know that he was smart enough to have survived quite well on his own in the wild – but like to think that he did miss me too a bit.

Inappropriate 8.April 2008 21:36

can you please be our buddy´s

poekels, kaffertjie and mephisto

Inappropriate 9.April 2008 20:14

thanks so much for the invite

love poekels , kaffertjie and mephisto

Inappropriate 10.April 2008 15:48

Owner Syam04
 7

toby you´re really special...& happi to be your buddies....

Inappropriate 13.April 2008 17:38

Owner saucykats
 5

Ruth-Ann, that was such a loving and memorable tribute to Toby and beautifully written.
~Pam~

Inappropriate 20.April 2008 16:00